Isabel Allende Tells Tales of Passion

I just finished listening to the short speech by Isabel Allende.  It is so wonderful to hear more women delivering the message that we all need to deliver: how the empowerment of women can change the world.  In her own words: “we need to make the world good. Not better! Good!”.   See the video here. It only takes 17 minutes of your time.  After that, please share this page with your friends.

Isabel Allende Tells Tales of Passion Video

Getting Girls into School

We all want more children around the world to go to school.  But did you know that most of the benefits that accompany increased education are attributable to girls, who use their schooling more productively than boys?  Women in the developing world who have had some education share their earnings; men keep a third to a half for themselves.  Yet, 60% of the kids OUT of schools are girls.  And in some areas in the world, only 1 out of 5 get any education at all.

When girls go to school, they marry later and have fewer healthy children.  With 5 years of education, her child has a 40 % better chance of living to age 5.  Some studies even indicate that a girl with education is 3 timess less likely to contract HIV/AIDS.

Donor nations are increasingly reaching the consensus that global education, especially for girls, is the key to development.  But the main problem is not only funding, but changing the culture in parts of the developing world.  Parents will need to understand that in the long run, their families will be better off if girls get educated.

Watch the video on the Girl Effect at http://www.girleffect.org/#/video/

Worldwide Gender Politics

Worldwide, women fill only 15.4% of ministerial positions.  I just ran into the following statistics and found them very interesting. The regional averages are:

Americas         22.9%   (23.8% in the US)

Europe            22.4%

Africa             18.3%

Asia/Pacific    9.1%

Middle East     7.1%

What are the countries with the most female ministers?

Finland             57.9%

Norway             55.6%

Spain                52.9%

Grenada            50%

Sweden             47.6%

What are the countries with the least female ministers?

Turkey                  4.2%

Afghanistan           3.7%

Pakistan                3.6%

Papua New Guinea 3.6%

Iran                      3.2%

What are the countries with ZERO female ministers?

Bhutan

Bosnia and Herzegovina

Burma

Libya

Monaco

Nauru

North Korea

Palau

Romania

Saudi Arabia

Singapore

Solomon Islands

Tuvalu

The most common portfolios of female participation are human services and education.

Sexism and “Sex and the city”

So men don’t like the "Sex and the City" movie?  is that any surprise at all?  a movie where women are fully empowered!!. Where even the ones that still wait or look for their knight in shining Armour, are still living full lives and don’t just sit at home to wait for the wonderful great prince that will come to rescue them and make them happy for ever and ever…….  WHY AM I NOT SURPRISED THEY ARE NOT DIGGING IT???

Were you aware that this movie is the highest-grossing debut ever for a movie starring women?

Ramin Setoodeh writes a nice analysis on the Newsweek magazine of June 16th, 2008.  Were you aware that the studios felt this movie would fail because mostly women would go to see it? women don’t usually carry movie blockbusters on their shoulders.  What they don’t realize is that their category of "chick movie" no longer cuts it with lots of us.  We want the chick factor!! but we need them to add the empowerment ingredient.  We are just no longer just going for the "damsel in distress" identity…..

I am really hoping that the success of this movie, will help the studio heads realize (mostly white men) that life has changed.  We women want different things than our mothers did. And we are no longer just looking for the love story built on a man’s terms. We want the love story built on our terms.  And isn’t that what "Sex and the City" did for us?   everyone got what they wanted… on their terms!!  you’ve got to love it if you are a woman… gotta hate it if you are a man…  your control is no longer there…

See the whole article here…. http://www.newsweek.com/id/139889

Here is to the Nerd Girls!!

WOW!  I haven’t been so excited to read an article on a magazine in a very long time… The article is called "Revenge of the Nerdette" and it’s on the June16 th,2008 issue of Newsweek magazine.  See the whole article at  http://www.newsweek.com/id/140457.

Here we have a whole new generation of girls being proud to call themselves "Nerds" but also claiming their femininity. Until very recently, girls were not allowed to be smart and pretty at the same time.  You were either "smart" or "geeky" and then of course that also meant you were ugly!  or you were a sexy kitten but your brain left a lot to be desired.  Women of my generation (born in the 60s) have had to deal with that stereotype.  So, if you were smart and pretty, people just did not know how to handle it.  Well…. here is to the new generations of girls engineers, and nerd girls, who are enjoying their "smartness" while also why not say it? enjoying their "sexiness".  My hat is off to you girls!!! you will write your own paradigms, and you will change culture!! you will let the world know that this time "literally" you will be able to do "whatever you want" and be "whatever you want to be".

I read the article to my 6-year old girl and my 8-year old son and you would not believe their faces.  First, because they could not understand what was the big deal. After all, they are being raised in a world where they get to see girls in many roles my generation did not get to see.  But then, when my daughter looked at the picture of the girls pictured on the magazine, she said "those girls don’t look like nerds" which gave me a great opportunity to go into the "you can be smart and pretty at the same time" conversation. And then, my 8-year old son said he thought some girls did not like to be smart, and preferred to be seen as just "pretty" and that really got me!! of course that gave me a great opportunity to go into the "you are surrounded by smart and pretty girls so don’t act so shocked!! conversation

So, my hat goes to the girls of this generation that keep striving to "own" their space in the world!!  and to be who they are…. smart!!  strong!! and why not?  also beautiful and "feminine"!!

Sexism sells… How long until we stop buying it?

I just came across this video and it had me literally in tears…..yes! we all know sexism is prevalent, yes! we all know the name-calling, outright abuse, and harassment that women that are trying to change the status quo live with, but are we being blind to what the media is doing to us?  The video I am talking about is posted at http://womensmediacenter.com/sexism_sells.html.  Please spend some minutes watching it and forwarding it to your female friends and family and definitely sign the petition on the site.

Although a lot of the content on the video is of political nature and of "Hillary-nature", don’t let that put you off if you are not a Hillary-follower. This is not about her, and this is not about political parties.  This is about the permission the media feels it has to bash women.

When a man stood up in front of Hillary in the campaign trail, with a sign saying "Iron my shirt".  Where was the uproar?  where was the media?  but more important… where we we?  as a gender we need to work together to not only highlight situations like this, but also to work on changing the fact that "it is OK" to do that.  What if someone had stood up in from of Obama to say "Park my car" or "wash my dishes".  What do you thing would have happened? maybe that is why black men were able to vote 50 years sooner than women were.  We have a big lesson to learn from the underrepresented group of African Americans. They have been able to work together to institute change while we women sit on the sidelines maybe even possibly crying foul, but then moving on to something else that gets our attention.   So how long until we start fully working together? how long before we stop buying the messages the media gives us?

I say "yesterday was late"!! get involved!! get involved with the community and with the organizations that are working on behalf of all women!!!  fight for what is right and learn to stick together as a gender.  My friend Eme with lots of wisdom recently told me… "There is only one area in which women are inferior to men, and that is in their ability to play together and to work together". So, I say it is time we stop buying it!!! it is time to come together and continue changing the world, even if as one of the men on the video say… "I close my legs when I see Hillary".   Let them all close their legs when they see we are a power to be reckoned with. 

Recognizing Women’s Vital Roles in Achieving Peace and Security

Human Rights and Amnesty International USA recently submitted the following recommendation to the House Foreign Affairs Committee, Subcommittee on International Organizations, Human Rights, and Oversight, based on The United Nations Security Council Resolution 1325.

What is Resolution 1325?

In its Resolution 1325 from October 2000, the United Nations Security Council outlined what the United Nations and its member states need to do to incorporate a gender perspective into peacekeeping operations and to promote women’s full involvement in all efforts to maintain and promote peace and security. The resolution is historic not only in that it constituted the first time the Council systematically addressed the manner in which conflict affects women and girls differently from men and boys, but also because it acknowledges the crucial link between peace, women’s participation in decision-making, and the recognition of women’s life experiences throughout the conflict cycle. As such, the resolution calls for enhanced participation of women in all mechanisms to prevent, manage, and resolve conflicts, and for attention to the special needs of women and girls during resettlement, disarmament, reintegration, and other post-conflict processes.

Recommendation

As the Subcommittee considers this part of Security Council Resolution 1325, we urge attention both to women’s participation and to substantive representation of women’s needs and experiences on peace and security agendas. There is no denying that women and girls suffer particular harms in conflict. Violence targeting women and girls—that is, gender-based violence—has been a horrifying characteristic of all recent armed conflicts and post-conflict situations, whether as a form of torture, as a method to humiliate the enemy, or with a view to spreading terror and despair. Human rights and humanitarian organizations have reported such violence in Afghanistan, Burundi, Chad, Colombia, Côte d’Ivoire, the Democratic Republic of the Congo, Liberia, Peru, Rwanda, Sierra Leone, Sudan, Chechnya/Russian Federation, Uganda and the former Yugoslavia, just to mention a handful. It is precisely because conflict carries such devastating consequences for women and girls that efforts to build peace and prevent the recurrence of conflict must consider the role of women. Peace processes cannot undo the loss and suffering experienced by women and girls during war, but these processes can provide the starting point for accountability and redress. Indeed, effective peace processes can help prevent future violence through such redress. Moreover, at the crudest level, peace processes will have failed if they do not address the specific harm suffered by women and girls, just as they will have failed if they did not take into account the harm suffered by men and boys. 

Research and experience from many countries give insights into the core elements of effective peace processes from the perspective of including women’s experiences and needs. These elements include:

  • Women must be represented in the drafting, implementation, and application of the rule of law that is created during transitions from war to peace;
  • Sex-based discrimination in access to justice must be addressed—this means, that underlying gender assumptions regarding the design of post-conflict dispute resolution mechanisms must be overcome;
  • The role of sex-based discrimination in the causes of the armed conflict must be analyzed;
  • The particular way in which the conflict affects women and girls—as civilians and as combatants—must be analyzed;
  • The peace agreement must include meaningful political participation for women;
  • Post-conflict rule of law must create legal accountability for crimes committed against women and mechanisms to protect the safety and dignity of women victims and witnesses in judicial proceedings;
  • Reparations arrangements must be non-discriminatory; specially adapted to women’s needs, interests, and priorities; and address the political and structural inequalities that negatively shape women’s and girls’ lives; and
  • Any reconciliation processes must provide a process for including women’s experiences in the history of the conflict.

Most of these elements form part of the international human rights obligations undertaken by states to eliminate all forms of discrimination against women and girls, and, as such, should not depend on Security Council emphasis—or indeed, on the existence of armed conflict and post-conflict reconstruction—for their full implementation. However, the international attention directed at post-conflict reconstruction may facilitate much needed action in an area that too often gets ignored. 

The United States House of Representatives has a crucial role to play in furthering the implementation of this Security Council Resolution. First, the House should ask the administration to make action on implementation of Resolution 1325 a priority for its membership of the Security Council, specifically during its June 2008 presidency of the Security Council. The United States government is in a unique position to provide leadership on this issue at the Security Council, because of its permanent seat at the Council. In particular, the House should urge the administration to advance systematic data collection and analysis of the effect of armed conflict on women and girls at the Security Council. Finally, the House of Representatives should ensure attention to the mentioned key elements of effective peace processes whenever it addresses post-conflict situations, and should urge the administration to do the same. 

The House of Representatives should also build bipartisan support for passage of the International Violence Against Women Act (S. 2279/H.R. 5927), which would enhance US implementation of key recommendations in Resolution 1325. The International Violence Against Women Act would integrate work to stop violence against women and girls into US foreign assistance and diplomatic efforts. It would provide support for programs for legal reform, for females affiliated with the fighting forces, and for women’s non-governmental organizations on the ground. 

Women Emerge as Potent Economic Force

Many countries are spending time and resources establishing policies that empower their women. When looking for "proof" of the impact of those policies on the economy, Rwanda comes up as the prime example.

After the slaughter of ethnic Tutsis and moderate Hutus by Hutu lilitias, Rwanda was left with a population that was 60% female.  To make matters worse, thousand of men were jailed for war crimes, or living as refugees in Congo, so women – at first by default – took roles in business and politics. Today, women hold about 48% of the seats in Rwanda’s parliament, which is the highest percentage in the world. And they are now about 50% of the farmers in the local coffee cooperative but get this…. they produce 90% of their finest beans for export in the cooperative.

In the 14 years since the genocide, this country is probably the leading example of how empowering women can transform economies and reduce poverty levels.   Why is that?  research has shown that women more than men invest their profits in the family, increasing nutrition, savings, and spending more on their children’s education.

The other significant output of this transformation is not only of economic value, but of cultural value. As there is now a whole generation of young men and women with a completely different view of the role their mothers and sisters play in society. 

Adding a woman to the Hall of Fame @ NewPinkPower.com (Mary Lou Jepsen)

Adding a woman to the Hall of Fame – Women in Technology @ www.NewPinkPower.com

Mary Lou Jepsen. In 2005, Jepsen and Nicholas Negroponte launched the nonprofit, open-source One Laptop Per Child Program, which, was an attempt to get a computer to every child in the world who needs one.  These machines had very special specifications:  they needed to work in extreme climate, with unstable power and internet connectivity,  needed to be readible in direct sunlight, and needed to sell for about 100 dollars.  Negroponte runs the project, but she has been the brain power behind the creation of this computer that can now run on solar power, and that has met every objective established except for the price (it’s around 188 dollars now). Read more about the project.

Adding a woman to the Hall of Fame @ NewPinkPower.com (Indra Nooyi)

Adding a woman to the Hall of Fame – Women in Business @ www.NewPinkPower.com

Indra Nooyi.  Chairman and CEO of Pepsico, the world’s fourth-largest food and beverage company. On August 14, 2006, Nooyi was named the successor to Steve Reinemund as chief executive officer of the company. She was effectively appointed as CEO by PepsiCo’s board of directors on October 1, 2006. According to the polls Forbes magazine conducted, Nooyi ranks fifth on the 2007 list of The World’s 100 Most Powerful Women. Nooyi has been named the #1 Most Powerful Woman in Business in 2006 and 2007 by Fortune magazine.  Read More.